In a very broad sense, cheating involves betraying a partner’s expectations about the type of contact the cheater has with others.
When a husband or wife, boyfriend or girlfriend, violates one’s expectations about what is appropriate, people feel betrayed. Keep in mind that relationships are not based on logic, but are influenced by our emotions.
As a result, cheating is difficult to define because people differ in the type of contact they feel it is appropriate for a partner to have with someone else.
Cheating is the getting of a reward for ability or finding an easy way out of an unpleasant situation by dishonest means according to a dictionary...and I totally agree!
Most of us find the easiest way out of difficult situations by just cheating.
I know the question on your mind now is "why do people cheat?"
Basically, when it comes to infidelity, two related explanations have been given.
The first explanation is probably the most well known: Spouses cheat because of problems in their relationship. Something is missing, passion has faded, partners feel lonely, a partner finds someone who treats them better or who appreciates them more than their current spouse, and so on.
Simply stated, people claim that they are not happy in their relationship, so they look for love and affection elsewhere.
The second explanation is more detailed in nature. This explanation ignores the reasons that people give for cheating and looks deeper into our human nature.
The second explanation explores what it means to be human and asks: "Why is being faithful to a spouse so difficult for many people?"
Probably the best way to think about these two explanations is to view them as two sides of the same coin.
One explanation looks at what people say about infidelity, while the other explanation looks at how and why infidelity occurs.
Together, both explanations give us a more complete picture about infidelity, love, and romance.
Comment below and share your reason for cheating, which gender is more unfaithful in a relationship, how you found out your partner was cheating or any other thing you wanna share on this topic.
CIAO!!
There are no apparent reason why men in particular cheat, that is to say they hardly resist offers being thrown at them from the opposite sex. People says it's their nature I think it certainly are.
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